TM's Story


Hi,
I just ran across your site today, and I would like to share my story.
Maybe in hopes of helping someone else in the future.
My mother has a rare type of lupus, she is paralyzed from the waist down and confined to a wheelchair. When I was about 2 or so, my mother married her second husband (My step father I guess you would call him). He and his family were Hispanic ( I am white) and they use to have allot of parties at his parents house. He would take me to the store with him and make me fondle him in the car, at his parents house he or his dad or brother would follow me to the restroom and do their thing. I never told mom, He always told me that I couldn't tell anyone at all.
Mom finally left him when I was about 5 or 6, and when I was 12 I finally told her about what happened.
Then when I was 13, my best friend at the time lived across the street. She had an older brother that I always had thought was very cute.
Well one day I was over there and a bunch of us girls had plans to go to Knots berry farm the next day, so I had my 50.00 for knotts that my Grandfather had given me to spend. David grabbed my money from me and ran to his mothers room (their parents were at work). I thought he was just messing around, so I ran back there to get it from him. When I walked into the room, Dave slammed the door and told me that he would give me my money after I had sex with he and his best friend Todd. I said NO, then Dave punched the bathroom door and then yanked it off the wall. I was scared to death, so with Todd blocking the bedroom door and Dave pulling the other door off the wall, I had no choice so I lied down on the bed crying the entire time.
After that I ran out of the house and went home, I told my mom but I begged her not to do anything because they lived across the street.
A PIECE OF ADVICE HERE TO ALL PARENTS, NO MATTER WHAT YOUR KID SAYS, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEY WILL GET OVER BEING EMBARRASSED, ITS NOT SO EASY GETTING OVER BEING RAPED!!!!!!!
I am now a 36 yr old wife and mother of 2 beautiful children and step Mother of 2 beautiful step daughters as well.
I have a great life now, but it wasn't always that way.
I turned to drugs, alcohol and sex when I was younger, and I had a pretty bad addiction to all of them. But I finally realized that I wasn't going to let these losers take my life away from me, I wanted better for myself and I got it.
TM
Thanks for letting me share my story on your website.